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RIGHT ON !Step One: I admit that I am powerless over my selfishness and self-centeredness, and that my life consequently has become unmanageable and I am afraid to face my selfishness and self-centeredness. Step Two: I believe that God will restore me to a life that has minimum selfishness and self-centeredness in it thus making my life manageable so I will not hide from my selfishness and self-centeredness. Step Three: I will turn my selfishness and self-centeredness over to God. I will ask Him for help in better dealing with the causes of my selfishness and self-centeredness. Step Four: I will make a fact-finding, a fact-facing, truthful inventory of myself so I can determine just what is at the root of my selfishness and self-centeredness and face them openly. Step Five: I must admit to myself, another person who has quality sobriety and to God, the causes of my selfishness and self-centeredness. This will help me to discover the truth about why I have so much selfishness and self-centeredness. Step Six: I will pray to be ready and willing to have God remove the causes of my being in bondage to selfishness and self-centeredness. Unless I sincerely desire to minimize my selfishness and self-centeredness and the causes of them they will still control me making my life unmanageable and my circumstances will remain unchanged until I pray for the strength and willingness to go to any lengths to find out the causes of my selfishness and self-centeredness which is making my life unmanageable. Step Seven: I will humbly ask God to remove the causes of my selfishness and self-centeredness which is an open display of my willingness and sincerity. Step Eight: I will make a list of all people that were affected by my selfishness and self-centeredness and become willing to correct what I can. Step Nine: I will attempt to correct as much as I can to those who were affected by my selfishness and self-centeredness. I will not put this off which would be an easier, softer way which will backfire on me. Step Ten: I will continue to take inventory daily so as to remind ourselves of why I get so selfishness and self-centeredness, and be on guard against letting selfishness and self-centeredness control my life again. I must ask myself the reason for my selfishness and self-centeredness before I become affected again by them so they will not control me again. Step Eleven: I must pray to ask God for guidance and knowledge of His will. I will ask myself if I have prayed for the power to reduce the causes of my selfishness and self-centeredness. Have I dared to turn over what is causing my selfishness and self-centeredness to God completely and to rest in quiet trust for the outcome? Step Twelve: Am I now truly aware of the causes of my selfishness and self-centeredness believing I can and will get help if I sincerely ask God? Do I believe that A.A.'s Twelve Steps really do apply to the causes of my selfishness and self-centeredness. Am I willing to apply them to the causes of my selfishness and self-centeredness? Do I believe that the causes of my selfishness and self-centeredness in my life can be minimized? Will I attempt to pass along this approach to others dealing with selfishness and self-centeredness or other problems, showing and sharing my experience? Jay J. |
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